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"If you take responsibility for yourself you will develop a hunger to accomplish your dreams."

I am ready to make the necessary changes in my life to better my life style. So that I can be a better person. What make this time different than any other time or any other goal I have set for myself. To be honest I don’t know.

I do know that I don’t want to die overweight and out of shape. I know that I am not stupid, or lazy or ignorant, I need people to see smart, strong, determine and hardworking person when they see me. I want to be able to make a difference in the lives of the people I am around. I need to be a better role model for my family and people that I meet and most importantly for myself.

Recently I have been thinking about what I could have done, should have done and then I come to know that since I am not dead I still can accomplish each of the, could haves and should haves. I can work every day toward accomplishing each of these things and a lot more.

I should be more Zealous in my ministry.
I could have read the bible from Genesis to Revelation
I should read more than one translation of the bible
I could have my degree in information management,
I should keep up to date on the changing technology
I could have earning power so that I can get what I NEED.
I should have my own business doing something creative.
I could have a regular exercise routine so that keeping fit should not be a problem.
I should be a great motivator to my children (nieces and nephews). They can accomplish anything they desire it helps to see that as well as hear it.
I should, could and need to be proud of me.

I should be able to accomplish each of these and more just by living a productive, driven lifestyle.

"If you take responsibility for yourself you will develop a hunger to accomplish your dreams."
Les Brown

Comments

Anonymous said…
So when are you going to change the SHOULDS to I WILLS?
Lavon said…
Every day that I wake up!

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